I Know Exactly How To Fail at Work Life Balance. I Burned Out – TWICE!!!!I

I know exactly how to fail at work life balance. I burned out – TWICE!!!! It happened at my first teaching job about 6-7 years in. I was determined not to let it happen again. It happened at my 2nd teaching job about 11–12 years in. I was determined not to let it happen again. …

Christmas Is The Worst Time To Have a Concert

I’m NOT against Christmas – I promise Those who know me well know I have a strong faith in Jesus Christ, and Christmas is an important holiday in that faith, but I quit doing Christmas concerts decades ago. So much is happening in December already! Everybody seems to be putting on a performance. Every school …

Practice Tips – Plus THE BIG LIE About Practicing

The Big Lie One of the biggest lies we’ve told students – not on purpose – is that practice makes perfect. Not true! Perfect practice makes perfect! But most students don’t know how to practice. Early in my career I often had students fill out impressive practice logs with 10 hours a week of practice. …

Classroom Discipline Techniques Guaranteed To Work (most of the time)

No single method of discipline will work for every student in every situation. Each student is different and may need a different approach. And the student who always does what they’re supposed to but is having a bad day will require a different approach than a student who never does what they’re supposed to. It’s …

Teachers – Do This The First Week of School

Establish AND Practice Routines and Procedures The time you invest early in the school year in processes and procedures will pay HUGE dividends throughout the year! Teachers often tell me,  “I just don’t have time to spend on procedures.”   I understand that we all want to perform the best that we can at concerts, and …

The Great Yogi Berra Tries To Explain Jazz

I saw this posted recently. I don’t know if it’s a true story, but it definitely sounds like how Yogi would explain jazz.  Interviewer: Can you explain jazz? Yogi: I can’t, but I will. 90% of all jazz is half improvisation. The other half is the part people play while others are playing something they …

Why I Love The Saxophone

When it comes to musical instruments, the saxophone stands apart as a true masterpiece. With its unparalleled ability to evoke emotion, its versatile sound range, and its captivating blend of elegance and energy, the saxophone has rightfully earned its place as one of the most beloved and revered instruments in the world of music. Recently …

Take This Job and Love It

I’m a band teacher and belong to several social media sites where other members can post questions, express struggles, and share resources. It’s great most of the time, but I have noticed a disturbing trend where, when responding to a member’s difficult situation – instead of posting helpful advice – members post responses like this: …

Get started writing a book

Get Started Writing a Book

Do you have an idea for a book or article? Many people dream of writing a book, but they don’t ever start.Starting is probably the most important thing to do! Get started writing a book.. Follow these steps: Set a goal Don’t worry about editing or proofreading If you follow these steps, you will be …

That’s My Orchestra Teacher

I was driving and stopped to get gas and a drink at a local store when I heard a loud exclamation… “ Hey everybody – that’s my orchestra teacher.” I didn’t recognize the young lady the exclamation came from, but upon further inquiry, I found out she was a student of mine from 4-5 years …

Teaching Great Concert Etiquette to the Audience and Performers

You walk into a concert hall and are bombarded with crying babies, cell phones ringing, people talking on their cell phones, people playing games, cat calls to band members, and doors opening and closing in the back. It’s frustrating. It’s disrespectful. Proper concert behavior can and should be taught to the audience and the band …

The Story Project – Funny stories of growing up Italian

The story I shared at The Story Project a couple of years ago. It  aired on KRCC in Colorado Springs.  This is my recording of that public airing so forgive the poor sound quality. I share funny stories of growing up Italian, including: How garlic permeates everything when you’re Italian Why I speak SO LOUDLY …

I Was Bullied Throughout School, but in 6th Grade I Became a Bully

From 2nd through 7th grades, I was bullied by other boys. Mom felt it was always wrong to fight. She would quote Jesus’ admonition to turn the other cheek. Later I realized that verse describes a time when someone insults you. Even Jesus overturned the moneychanger’s tables, and sometimes boys have to defend themselves.  One …

Sleeping Under a Bridge? No, But Homeless Nonetheless

I didn’t understand we were homeless.  It wasn’t the “live on the streets in a box” homeless. We lived with relatives. We lived with friends. Italians are great at putting together a makeshift bed to bring in extra people. We had our own apartment for a time – but we could not afford electricity, so …